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Sunday, November 20, 2011

Praying for our Faithful Departed

At Pinegrove Memorial Park in Sydney, Australia
     Surely we miss those whom we love and who are no longer with us on earth.  In my Catholic Faith, November is usually the time dedicated to pray for the these souls we call the Faithful Departed.  Love continues after death and the wish that our loved ones reach their destination in Happiness and Peace.  We accompany them with prayers and we best express this by offering for them Holy Mass or the Celebration of the Eucharist.  
The Holy Mass is one of the best prayers for the Faithful Departed.

      In a special way, I remember my sister, my dad, and other relatives not with us now but continues to help me in special ways...  This tradition of prayer makes the family, group, or any association more bonded.  Saying a simple prayer for them or offering a good deed would be helpful even though it is just the prayer of Eternal Rest...  Searching for some good prayers, I came across this link:Prayers for the Faithful Departed - Prayers for the Souls in Purgatory and copied here Prayers for the Faithful Departed that may be useful for you or some of your friends. Just click the cited link.  Here it goes:
At detail of cross and an angel in a tombstone in a Christian cemetery.

"Prayer for the dead is one of the greatest acts of charity we can perform. Our prayers help them during their time in Purgatory, so that they can enter more quickly into the fullness of heaven. These prayers are especially suited for offering a novena on behalf of the dead, or for praying during those seasons of the year (November, in the Western Church; Lent, in the Eastern Church) designated by the Church as times of fervent prayer for the faithful departed."

De Profundis

The De Profundis is a penitential psalm that is sung as part of vespers (evening prayer) and in commemorations of the dead. It is also a good psalm to express our sorrow as we prepare for the Sacrament of Confession.

Prayer for Mercy on the Souls in Purgatory

While we know that all who are in Purgatory will enter into Heaven, we are still bound by charity to try to lessen the suffering of the Holy Souls through our prayers and deeds. While our first responsibility is to those people we have known, it is important to remember in our prayers those souls who are most forsaken.

A Prayer for a Deceased Mother

This prayer is a good way to remember our mother. It is especially useful to pray as a novena on the anniversaries of her death; or during the month of November, which the Church sets aside for prayer for the dead; or simply anytime that her memory comes to mind.

A Prayer for a Deceased Father

This prayer is a good way to remember our father. It is especially useful to pray as a novena on the anniversaries of his death; or during the month of November, which the Church sets aside for prayer for the dead; or simply anytime that his memory comes to mind.

A Prayer for Deceased Parents

This prayer is a good way to remember our parents, who have gone before us. It is especially useful to pray as a novena on the anniversaries of their deaths; or during the month of November, which the Church sets aside for prayer for the dead; or simply anytime that their memory comes to mind.

Prayer for All the Deceased

This beautiful prayer, drawn from the Byzantine Divine Liturgy, reminds us that Christ's victory over death brings us all the possibility of eternal rest. We pray for all of those who have gone before us, that they, too, may enter into Heaven.

Prayer for the Holy Souls in Purgatory

Christ's mercy encompasses all men. He desires the salvation of everyone, and so we approach Him with confidence that He will have mercy on the Holy Souls in Purgatory, who have already proved their love for Him.

Eternal Rest

One of the most commonly recited of Catholic prayers in times past, this prayer has fallen into disuse in the last few decades. Prayer for the dead is one of the greatest acts of charity we can perform.

Eternal Memory

This prayer is used in Eastern Catholic and Eastern Orthodox churches. The "eternal memory" mentioned in the prayer is remembrance by God, which is another way of saying that the soul has entered heaven and enjoys eternal life.

Weekly Prayers for the Faithful Departed

The Church offers us different prayers that we can say each day of the week for the faithful departed. These are especially useful for offering a novena on behalf of the dead, or for praying during those seasons of the year (November, in the Western Church; Lent, in the Eastern Church) designated by the Church as times of fervent prayer for the...

Sunday Prayer for the Faithful Departed

This is a prayer for the faithful departed to be offered on Sundays.

Monday Prayer for the Faithful Departed

This prayer is said on Mondays for the souls of the faithful departed.

Tuesday Prayer for the Faithful Departed

On Tuesdays, Catholics pray this prayer for the souls of the faithful departed.

Wednesday Prayer for the Faithful Departed

Catholics pray this prayer on Wednesdays for the souls of the faithful departed.

Thursday Prayer for the Faithful Departed

We should remember the faithful departed on Thursdays by praying this prayer.

Friday Prayer for the Faithful Departed

This prayer is offered on Fridays for the souls of the faithful departed.

Saturday Prayer for the Faithful Departed

Catholics pray this prayer on Saturdays for the souls of the faithful departed.

Indulgence for a Visit to a Cemetery

This indulgence for a visit to a cemetery encourages us to spend a moment in prayer for the souls in Purgatory.

Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Reviewing "There Be Dragons"

          In spite of a busy Saturday last October 1, I had a chance to watch There Be Dragons* on its premier show.     That evening, my friends and I had some time to talk about the movie.  We were delighted to discover its richness and appreciated Roland Joffé.

          The production of There Be Dragons by its director Roland Joffé and key producer Ignacio Gómez-Sancha is one remarkable social enterprise.  To convey aesthetically through film these messages—redemption via the cross, the power of love and forgiveness, the fight to be saints in the middle of the world—are great risks amid current economic, social, political and historical situations.   These men and the whole production team deserve thanks for embarking on a commercial project which is also an education of the heart. 


          There are experiences in life that jolts, disorients, or weakens us.  Many times these are the bitter pill that we have to swallow.  The devastation or the loneliness, the looming fears and insecurities, the guilt that remains after a wrong deed or misgiving, the trauma or the wound after a conflict could deeply and intensely reside in us.  We get angry, we retaliate, or we run away as we refuse to see the reality of our wounds.  We get bitter.   Is there meaning and deliverance from all these?
  
           There Be Dragons brings us in the paradigm of love and forgiveness.  The movie gives you a panoramic view in a moment in history—the Spanish Civil War—when lives of its main characters: Josemaria, Manolo, Ildiko, Oriol and Roberto intertwine.  Each one looks for an ideal, each one looks for love.


          For Josemaria, the Love he found spurred and sustained him in his mission to establish Opus Dei especially in those difficult times of war.   By then, he was fighting hard to drown evil an abundance of good.  Manolo, though seen as Josemaria’s antithesis, looked for God’s redemptive love in the end through Josemaria.  Characters Ildiko and Oriol showed admirably the greatness and frailty of the human condition while Roberto’s saga summarized the conversion of his pain into love which made him free in the end.
          The openness to love and forgiveness, which Joffé rendered through Josemaria and the entire film, enables us to catch the signal of Christ who is in man.  This is the secret that enables to love, to forgive, to have compassion amid structures or dragons that obstruct recognition and acceptance of God.  The movie amplifies one's understanding of others and buoys him to face and slay his dragons.  
 
          In a recent teleconference interview with Roland Joffé at the University of Asia & the Pacific, he said, “We think we look at movies but I think movies look at us: movie stays the same but you hear different comments about it.”  From the screenplay and the actors who did well in putting passion in their roles, I recognized people I know--relatives, friends, people I love, people who make me suffer, etc. I saw myself too.   And in the experience of it, I became, in a way, a stakeholder of the film as I slay my dragons.


          I hope you can watch the movie in the big screen.  In Manila, it will be shown starting November 9 in cinemas: SM Megamall, SM North, SM Southmall, Trinoma, Glorietta 4, and Festival Mall. It is well worth one's money and time!
* “There Be Dragons” tells the story of two childhood friends, Josemaria and Manolo, whose lives take very different paths in the midst of the political and social unrest of the 1930’s in their native country of Spain. The film is inspired by actual events, especially the real life of St. Josemaria Escriva, a priest and founder of Opus Dei (from http://www.stjosemaria.org).